usually if more than one episode of seizure occurs it's best to be on epileptic meds. i'm no doc, tho. just speaking from experience.
sounds like your daughter has some growing up to do as well. i know it's troubling but she's grown and your detaching with love works. if it were me i'd have the grandchilren over to visit at your liking. don't know if yr daughter uses u for a babysitter for partying or not.
sorry you are upset. we all love our chilren no matter what age and want the best for them. 
oh and worrying won't change anything so you and hubby go for an ice cream cone. 
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