I suppose I should not be getting annoyed by these comments from people, which are kind in nature.

But I feel annoyed.

Even though I do it myself, I no longer understand why people say: "I hope you are well"; "I hope you are doing better than before."

Does it make anyone else angry?

It feels like they do not want you to be sad, down, upset - ever, because it makes them uncomfortable. So when the **** hits the fan and you want to reach out to someone, doing so is like walking on eggshells because you know that you will greatly discomfort those that want to see nothing but a smile on your face. Hey - sadness is a natural part of me, too!

Help me understand this?