Oh my, I hope things do get better for you. I don't know if this helps but in my situation, my husband pushes me away a lot. He used to be affectionate other than behind closed doors. He used to tell me he loved me. Now, after his accident and losing his job, he is the same as your partner. He pushes me away, won't talk, won't do anything but spends all available time on facebook. I have seen some of his conversations that are completely inappropriate. I have confronted him and he says it is harmless banter. He says he does not want a divorce but yet he hides what he is typing and he put locks on his computer. He tells me not to worry but pushes me away.

I don't know what helps in this situation. Some days are wonderful but many are not. I am truly sorry, my friend, but I wish I could tell you something that can help.