setting bounderies seems to be where i am also... I have learned alot about myself in the last few years.. and the more i learn and realize why i would do the things i would do... the more i realize i have to set bounderies and stick with them... i too used to be the one that thought she had to "fix" everything.. I had to assume everyone else's responsibilities.. I no longer do that... It is harder than I first thought it would be, but it feels good not to have that stress and worry.

(((((((((((((((((jen)))))))))))))))))))))

so proud of you!!!!!