Sky, I know that I would do better to be more prepared often .... coming with things I want to talk about and some sense of what I want to achieve; I wonder though if while still choreographing you could try coming with a little less to see what flows naturally as well? Just a little loosening of the dance reins; not enough that you stumble but enough that you can both have a little more freedom to test other dance steps that may work beautifully in the scene?