This thought was triggered by a busy thread that lots of people have been contributing to.

It seems many on here are very new to T and some have had several different T's over a long period. Others feel incredibly close to their T and others have a 6 foot wall in between them.

My T has a very blank office and I would not know anything about T from just looking around. But occasionally T has mentioned things, maybe to highlight empathy and so I know a little bit about the T outside therapy.

Actually for me, I don't like it when T shares these personal bits, it further fuels that wondering, which I know could become a focus for me.

Because of this, I understand why boundaries are so important. I just wondered what boundaries other T's may have, where do they draw the line?