Thanks everyone!! Its the other person that would be disclosing the info, I am the friend/girl who has strong feelings for the guy, Im not exactly sure whats the issue but its not only depression, we were very close at one pt, then he pulled away, he wants to tell me but can't and isnt sure why, seems so sad about it, he said he wished he could. Im thinking its because we have been friends for so long, I think maybe he may start seeing girls to see if he can talk about it, its so hard , i wish he could tell me, and im being supportive because i want whats best for him,but thinking of him with other girls kills me, is there any way he could tell me? has this ever happened to anyone?