congrats Ninni. Hubby and I have been married for 7 yrs and have just passed our 8 yr anniversary but separated 4 the 2nd time 2 days ago. We have been thru so much shite 2gether that the odds have always been stacked against us, but we both want to sort things out...just while we are apart tho. Better for the kids that way, and less stress 4 the both of us. But sorry...fingers got into overdrive on the keyboard while i was supposed to be saying congrats... How long have you been married 4?