Well, NOW you have to talk to him about your impulse and figure out what all this MEANS. No good deed goes unpunished! Is it just the impulse to tithe? Is it because you're not allowed to have the whole pie all to yourself? You don't deserve all of it? You have to give some of it away before it's taken from you anyway? I have a LOT of issues with gifts, obviously! Maybe it's really not that complicated for you, hope not!

Congratulations on your bonus, YOU DESERVE IT.