Lacey - what was your relationship with your T prior to getting this information? It seems to me that his friendship with the other T should not be a deal-breaker if you had trusted your T before.

I'd say that only if your T condoned the behavior of his friend should you begin to question his ethics but haven't all of us made mistakes before in our lives? I keep thinking of the saying, "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone."

I am not in any way suggesting that what that T did was right or defensible but must you condemn your T for his mistake? On the other hand, if your relationship was already wobbly, then learning of this incident could really be permanently damaging.

I feel for you. Good luck