I agree with emptybee15 - run for hills and never blink an eye. This kind of person can sell ice cubes to Eskimos and legitimize their behavior. Pay attention to the signs - he has a long history of raping and being violent with women, he batters his present wife, he over stepped his professional boundaries with you and probably will again with other patients and he's manipulative.

I'm very sorry you lost your baby. If you insist on having sex with him - use double birth control so you don't end up giving him another child and end up like these other women. You're also helping him cheat and you might one day be in her shoes. Sure he's charming - I'm sure all his other women also thought he was charming too. I wonder how many of his patients he's touched in inappropriate ways. You love what you think he is, but wait until he finds another conquest and you'll no longer be important. He presently cheats and batters his wife - that's not a changed man!!