You can't keep wasting your life/time on him. If he's not ready, tell him you need to find someone who is.

It'll be ONE year with my guy next month and I intend on asking him if we are working towards something or if we're just filling time. I'm tired of having my time wasted, I want someone who wants me JUST as much. I actually want to get married, but that's so much of a far-fetched dream, I just leave that word out completely.

Have a great day all