I think the boundaries that T and I have are perfect for our relationship and that is all that matters-I know some people would think that they are too loose-at least in session-but I'm okay with it and so is he-and it is above all else-therapeutic and healing. We maintain different boundaries outside of sessions-I don't call him or leave emails beyond scheduling. In session he is very open and real-and has used examples from his life and family-I know a few things that most would find embarrassing to know about their T but it makes me feel like I can be more real and open with him...he is very open to touch-when appropriate and always asks...compared to the cold/weird/inaccessible T I had for a short while-I wouldn't trade it for the world!!!