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I'm having trouble with the "clickish" comment, probably because I've been accused of being a part of one and that is SO NOT TRUE!

IMO, you just have to get in there and start talking, at least to just one person and first. You'd be surprised how quickly others start responding to you... Or at least, that's the way it USED to be.

Honestly, though, in the past, if you didn't speak up much, people would tend to forget you're there.

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My comment about cliques was not directed to you as I have no memory of being in chat with you. However,
Personally, I think chat rooms should be approached like your own room in your house. If someone new comes in, you don't continue talking to your friends just because you know them. There is an element of hospitality that should be given... not that its all on one person. Of course, one has to talk to be known. But honestly.. quite often ive tried to talk many time and been ignored due to not being an important member. Its just about kindness...even if it requires a bit more of you -- anonymity should not mask rudeness.