Does anyone else see that in some ways this topic as it has been is rude in and of itself..If I were at a party and saw something lets say to me as rude I would take it up with the persons involved or the host not make them feel like bad by posting it and going on and on and on about it,.I don't do chat but I feel sorry for the two people who were joking around..the new person may not have stayed for OTHER reasons

I also think Rebound has some valid points