I recently told my husband this past fall of being sexually abused as a child. We have been married at the time for just over 5 years and took this information as I lied to him. Mind you, I have only told my sister some of this information before I told him.

Ever since then he seems to be very distant. We have since discussed things and he knows now how hard of a decision it was for me to tell him. Although our relationship is different.

How do I get our relationship back to the way we were? We have tried counseling but he quit.