Monty,

Anniversaries can commemorate such horrid events and memories, I am so sorry for the pain you are in. As a Rape Survivior, it's so not fair to have to relive these events and keep these anniversaries, but my prayers are with you, my hopes are there too, that with each anniversary you can learn new coping skills that will help you to heal, and incorporate your strengths into that day, your will to endure, your ability to reclaim what was brutally taken away..take care Monty you are in our thoughts..