I like the comment about being comfortable with T. That's how it is for me too. We've known each other while he worked inpatient and now , in his own practice. We email back and forth, I know his address cause I wanted to mail him something, I have his cell # and he has mine. The first time I asked for a hug, he asked what it would mean. I appreciated that and once I explained, he gave me a hug. I know where he vacations, about his family and even invited him to my daughters wedding. He couldn't justify going to the reception, but did attend the ceremony. I look at him like an old friend.