Yeh, I cop an attitude with people who feel the need to say rude hurtful things too. My favorite is my son has autism, whats your excuse? Through the years there have been many who believed that they could do a better job than I am. Just suggest that they get a foster/adoption license. There are TONS of autistic kids who will likely never find homes and they could better put their energy into one of those kids than getting on you. You will figure out snappy comebacks. The MOST important thing to remember is that THEY are being rude and as 'normals' or 'NTs' they should know better. :P