Thank you all for your support. I will be there for her when she gets out of the hospital as much as I can. What she thinks and says I have realized, is not about me but like someone said "her inability to deal with her own issues".

Family pretty much knows to keep my sis safe but ignore the seizures (I know it sounds cold but if we get emotional over them, they last longer).

My sister is still in the hospital for her "chest pains" and our family does have a history of heart disease. Her husband called me to kind of venting and also to let me know he's not mad at me. That part is laughable because anyone exhibiting signs of chest pains and respritory distress, you are going to call 911 even if you don't believe them.

I heard my sister say she will go to Sierra Tuscon or Spring Mountain Recovery when she gets out of the hospital. Gonna hold her to it. No one in my family knows she threatened me as what she threatened me with is not to tell other family members what was going on.

Bottom line, I think she just wanted to go hang out with her friends disauidid and oxycodone for a day.

Her hubby is sick of the behavior. He knows it happens when he's not arround. He is not an advocate for pain or psych meds (he thinks I should go off my meds cold turkey) that's not gonna happen. But about the pain meds, I don't think she had chest pain based on how defensive she got and how much better she felt once they went into her iv... her behavior changed so drastically. She had me running for the doctor the nurse and a Starbuck's latte (I kid you not).

I really hope she gets the help she needs but she's expert at worming her way out of and into stuff depending on how she feels.

She also has a selective memmory.

But, I will watch my boundaries and be there for her as I can. I didn't know until recently she was doing stuff so she can have doc's administer her those drugs. Also think she is emeshed with her hubby that she can't hope with stuff when he is not around. I think that is his way of enabling her.

p.s. I pray there isn't a "withdrawl period with these drugs, but if she's acting strange I'd bet on it.