Hi! No, I don't think I do know anyone who has an easy relationship! I don't, that's for sure, so you have my sympathy! It's interesting to read other peoples' posts because there are lots of different points of view, some that I wouldn't have even thought of. Unfortunately, no-one can know what is going on in his head so its pointless trying to guess. Well its interesting but just not accurate. You sound like you know what you want and are just waiting for him to make up his mind. My only advice is that you can obsess and worry and stress while he makes up his mind, or you can go out and have some fun while you are waiting for him to make up his mind! If I were you I would fill up your time with good stuff so that you don't think about it too much. If you decide its not going to work, at least you've had fun in the meantime. If it does work, thats great. Good luck, hun!