i dnt know if this is the same but i wont sleep with a man unless im completelyt outta it. i cant feel comfortable unless im wasted but thats how the abuse lfet me. i was always so fascinated by what "normal" cupples do and how they feel. my t is heklping me feel hoe i actually feel but i know if i was u i would feel so much pressure wth epoelp staying. keep well and keep posting here so we know u are well.