Yes I have told him, and he said he would try to be aware or he would answer his phone when it rings. However, my brain takes it to a whole nother level I can respond to his actions, as far as what he tells me though, it's hard for me to believe anything anyone tells me about anything. That's how much I don't trust anyone.

I am trying to work on the reformation of my thoughts because I know it's my hang-up and not his. All of this was going on way before he came along. Thank you for your advice, I know it wasn't my fault, but when your thoughts take off on there own without warning, it's hard to catch those suckers.