you have a right to be angry and frustrated. however, i do believe people do change. i doubt anyone married for several years is married to the "same" person. YES, you do deserve to be with someone who's willinging to do anything for you, just to be close to you. poohey on him, if he can't even try. (((((hugs)))))

<font color=purple> But a stranger in a strange land, he is no one:
men know him not and to know not is to care not for.
Bram Stoker, Dracula, 1897 </font color=purple>