(Add on to previous post)
My best friend recently passed away. I promised to take care of her daughter like she was my own, her daughter was willed to me and my husband. She's 14 and has become a little hard to handle. I am going on Thursday to talk to her therapist (who deals with grief and body image) but wanted to get any other ideas first.

Today I ran into two problems with her. I had grounded her from her boyfriend because I had caught her almost naked with him twice. I went to her room to ask her if she wanted to bring a friend with her to dinner tonight. Her door was open and I saw her naked in her bed sky ping her boyfriend. She hung up then I explained to her that she should not be doing that because he could post the videos or pictures on the internet. I then told her she should have more self respect then that.

The second problem was that I found diet pills in her bathroom. I was cleaning it for her when she was at tumbling practice and found a bottle of them. She is dangerously thin already and should not be taking them (She is 5'2 86 pounds). I confiscated them and told her sternly she should not be taking them and that I Was going to have to tell her therapist.