Okay, so this is a bit strange. I've been in therapy almost a year now and have a positive relationship with my male t. But once in a while he does things that really seem manipulative. For example: his cell phone alarm (I'm thinking this isn't a ring tone) goes off repeatedly and he jumps up to shut it off. Other times, he unbuttons his shirt to the max and sits in a way that seems to display, well, his hairy chest. It really bugs me...I swear he's testing me. Do any people have advice on how to handle this?