yes, safety is also a foreign word at the moment here. people and events around me right now seem to be triggering a lot of undesired responses (undesired by me) in me. as you know, solving that problem seems impossible for the moment. but maybe in time i will find out what that word means and all of me will experience the results of it. im so glad t has a safe office for sure. t says that ptsd needs to calm down before we can do more work... re: DID. thanks so much kd.