OK, first... yes kids coloring books are fun but check art stores or online for the grown up coloring books!!! they rock! I usually have to use colored pencils though because some are SO detailed.

It has taken 4 years but now I can ride my horse when having a hard time. She too has an abuse history so it took a LONG time for her to lean that I would not hurt her because of my emotions... I just want to sit on her back while she walks around or want to pet her or cry on her VERY broad shoulders. We also play ground games. Our new favorite is when we take turns mirroring the others emotion.