Thanks for your quick response!

I wish we could do something like that, but my fiance is very much anti-drama, and thinks this would only cause drama. He's not even bothered by it nearly as much as I am. He's been dealing with crap like this from his mother for his whole life (for whatever the reason, his mother believes his daughter can do nothing wrong. This is the girl who has three kids, one of which she conceived in college, has never worked a day in her life, is completely dependent on her mother and the government even though she's married... Yet my fiance can't do anything right. 3.4 gpa graduating from a top engineering school in the country wasn't good enough for her...). I tend to agree with him, though, that this would cause issues... His family doesn't talk about their feelings, they push everything under the rug... I'll probably only say something if she says something about us not inviting her, but I have a feeling she won't, because she rarely talks about anything wedding related with either of us....

Oi.. I'm just so frustrated. And to top it off, my fiance just fell asleep which just triggers me, so I feel upset and alone... oi... Maybe I should go journal...