Sabrina, I think all of us women have felt like that at one time or another. Society has this way of shoving what is "supposed" to be beautiful and exceptable down our throats. I rarely ever look at celebrity or fashion magazines, because I don't believe in the standards our society has set as the "ideal". And you know what? I may not know you, but I DO know that you are beautiful, because to me every woman is beautiful in her own right. (and men too) I hate superficiality, and I tend to march to the beat of my own drum. What it comes down to is you feeling good about yourself. If you feel out of control, whether it's gaining weight or some other issue, you ARE in control and you CAN make a difference. I hope you find your peace, and the right bra. Also, I agree with Fuzzybear, those dressing room mirrors and lighting really do stink!

Hugs to you,
Sujin