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Originally Posted by stormyangels
What sort of message do you think that would sound like? Have you imagined it playing out in your head, of how T would say this in a way that would convince you?
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No, I haven't. And each time she tells me, I 'believe' it but then I worry again when I think I've done something in session that I think would make her want to terminate.
She has been annoyed with me before and so we do have that real and concrete threat in my mind. See, if someone is mad at me it means they will abandon me.
She called me yesterday and left message in which she said, 'of course I want to continue seeing you' after I had expressed my concern that she was finally sick of me.
IDK, maybe if she brought it up and was more emphatic and wouldn't let the topic end until she was convinced that I was convinced. IDK
I have already asked her this question in which I gave her a ton of scenarios about how I might act and if any of those would be cause for termination and in each one she said no. The only cause would be if I threatened her physically.