Sky if we can see clearly just by your posting that there is so much more to you than hurt, anger, sarcasm, fear etc. ..... and by that I mean we see good things in you; I think she will be able to as well and if she can't work out that you aren't a pitiful whining crybaby ............ well I don't think you'd be seeing her if she couldn't work that much out because it simply isn't true