i always would want my T to say things like i care about you ,I'm not angry at you,it will be OK,I'm not going to leave ,etc..and all these comforting statements. now i called her a few weeks ago to ask her if i was still able to come to my session and so on because i thought she was mad.i never really asked her if she was mad witch was my real concern not my appointment.when i told her what my real concern was and that i should have just asked her she asked,"would you have believed me if i had said no?"probably not.so yes i would love for her to say all these things but it is probably unrealistic that i would take her at her word