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Originally Posted by granite1
so yes i would love for her to say all these things but it is probably unrealistic that i would take her at her word
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This is true for me, too. I think my T has said pretty much all the things I wish he would. For me, the problem is that I don't trust another person to say those things outright. I assume he must be lying, tricking, or otherwise manipulating me by saying such kind, caring things. It's sad, but that's where my life experience has gotten me. It's a battle to learn to trust in his word.