Thank you all for your support. I have 4 days until my sister returns. My other sister also knows she lies but I need to tell her my side. I usually don't care about what others have to say...it's usually not about me anyway and that is a big relief.

The timeline for moving out is difficult. It depends on if I get this job which I will find out this week. Hopefully, I will also get foodstamps this week (have a telephone interview on monday).

I have already paid a deposit and someone is moving out at the end of September, so hopefully, it will be the end of September. My sister I'm sure will help move but I'm also sure she will look at my new place in distain (she lives in a 7 year old house which she finished out with her preference; marble counter tops, wood floors, Mexican tile here and there, along with half my mother's furniture that I grew up with...creepy). I'd rather have a safe, small, modest but clean (not obsessively so) and most important, my freedom.

My sister has agreed to allow me to help in the family business for my usual pay...I'm not just going to go along with that. I could use the extra money after I get paid from my usual job.

It gives me hope just thinking about it. Her husband is nice, but controlling and obnoxious...he's about had it with her as well. As there agreement, when she gets back from her trip, she's agreed to go to psych hospital to deal with what is causing the seisures (it's usually past trauma related) and she's not dealing with that either.

Bottom line, if she lies to me and others, why do people bother to communicate with her when they don't know if they are getting the right info or not?