Because deep inside you know that you need to have your own identity before you can commit to a true relationship. Your putting the cart before the horse. You need to find you first and your afraid of that, but so is everyone so your not unique jiakhan. You need to get back to concentrating on you, that has to come first. It could be your biological clock that is causing the confusion as well, that is also common. But the truth is, if you don't find you first and you fall for the wrong person because of your biological clock, you will miss out on the YOU part and that is really important. Because if you don't find you and truely know yourself, someone else can and will define you for the rest of your life and you will simply be at the mercy of someone elses control.

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