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Originally Posted by alibro32
I don't know whether this would be comforting to know, but you are not alone. Everything you talked about sounds like my life as of recent. I've been reflecting over past relationships that have gone wrong. I am currently in a relationship I wanted to leave last week because all of my relationships end eventually. I just wanted to get a head start. She wasn't very pleased and actually brought it to my attention what I was trying to do. At any rate, don't feel alone. Your not. Keep working at it and it will get better. Just choose your friends wisely.  |
Hey Alibro, It does help to know Im alone, I guess one of the biggest problems with mental illness is that in nearly all cases you feel so isolated and alone.
It helps to hear abuot other poeples experiences, in same cases you may find help and in others solace, but knowing your not alone is key.
Its good that you have had someone who can bring it to your attention because you need to fight that feeling I know its easier said than done, its difficult to face yourself in a battle of wills but im starting to see that its the thought process that is the problem, and thats what needs to change, It normally starts with, "wow this is great" then shifts to "this is too good its gonna end" to " man I really like her, shes gonna rip my heart out" to "beat her to the punch, drop her quick" and thats where it ends. Ive just had to try and push myself forward, and I do feel like Im making progress,
as so many have said; and I thank everyone who took the time and effort to read and reply to this post. These changes wont happen overnight but the first step is trying to address them. If you ever feel like sharing bro feel free
and thanks for reaching out