AL,

This is the girl who was also found naked with her boyfriend in her room after she had been left alone at home because she said she "didn't feel well." This girl is headed for a world of hurt, probably teenage pregnancy, and is being manipulated by this boyfriend of hers. This girl is in imminent danger. The computer needs to be moved into the living room where she can be supervised if she is using it. The boy needs to be off limits. His parents need to be informed of his actions so they can assist in supervising this situation. The guardian needs to sit down in a family session with the therapist and all the cards need to be put on the table. The boundaries and rules need to be clarified and discussed openly. But the adults in this situation have an obligation to do what must be done to protect this girl from mistreatment by this boyfriend. This is not a time to pussyfoot around the situation. It would be negligent to just say it's okay honey, I respect your right to privacy, and then let her continue to have access to the computer and this boy without supervision at ALL times. She will end up with STD's, pregnant, etc. without direct intervention here.