I don't think it is stupid. I met my SO online! I think if you want to meet him make sure its in a public place. NEVER drink or use a substance that can impair your judgement. Never go to his home alone. When I first met my SO my dad and sister came with me and he stayed in a house full of people over night.

Also traditionally date for a while. It is not smart to move in with someone after you've met them once in real life. Get to know them in person first. That is a general rule of thumb because moving in together so quickly can add a lot of temptation. When you traditionally date you allow yourself to make boundaries easier.