my son has joined the Army and just left for Fort Leonard Wood Missouri ( we live in Virginia) I have only talked with him once but we ( family & I ) found out he will graduate from basic training on or around Dec 15th....its not even here yet and I'm already in high panic mode. First off...I know my kids & family will want to fly ohhhhhhh snap ! HUGE PROBLEM for me....I know driving will suck ( appox 14 hr drive from here ) either way it will be alot of anxiety for me but driving I can get out and rest alittle ...I don't want to fly at all....they will fly without me I know but I don't want to drive alone either all that way. sometimes I feel like such a burden. people just don't understand my fear and the extent of it...something that should be wonderful is already starting to be miserable for me ...grrrrrrrr any suggestions ? please help