I am still getting my head round the process of therapy - but isn't it partly about practising being authentic, saying what is bothering us and then learning to deal with others reactions?

My T tells me not to worry about him - they get close supervision don't they?. So anything that may have bothered him he has a place to go to talk about it. I also think the only way T's develop and get experienced is by working with us and accepting feedback - it may be very useful for him to hear your experience of him.