LOL skysblue, a Klonipin before the next session? (((((((skysblue)))))))
ECHOES is right (((((Echoes))))) good post.
You did get an appology from the therapist and that was a good exchange, she admitted she was too harsh and misjudged you, which sounds like more than your mother would have ever conceded.

So you learned to call her out when you felt she was unfair in her comment about you and she agreed. You have to remember that she is not your mother and other women are not you mother either. So, while you are used to someone who constantly overpowers you (your Mother) not all people are like that and you DO have the right and ability to call them out for misjudging you and still get back on track with a mutual relationship where you can aquire more guidance.

And that is why I wanted you to understand that you cannot expect 100% accuracy out of others and just hand them 100% trust. But you also have to learn that you are not in a battle with your mother where you are the low man in every interaction with others. Your mother did you no favors as she ruled no matter what, so you have to repair that part of yourself that she impressed upon you. You did good, you expressed your displeasure about the judgement you received and you learned you CAN do that.

I think what your really questioning is if you "Really did do it". Because you never accomplished that with your mother. The answer is yes you did, roll the dice and move forward, Yeah, you did do it.

Open Eyes