I'm having trouble with 2 things now. The first is trusting my judgement about people. I have no interest in going out and meeting new people because I was so wrong about my ex. .....I feel like I've made some very bad choices and don't want to take the risk of making any more bad choices.

The second thing I'm having trouble with is that I spend so much time thinking about the results of his actions.

My brother and my best friend tell me I'm being too hard on myself and that it's going to take time. Am I expecting too much from myself to be farther along in the healing process?