(((ReadytoStop)))

My experience is that both individuals in the couple have to be aiming towards the same goal.

Repairing the relationship ~ remembering the vows once taken, and willing to work to get back into that state of mind with one another again. It isn't an instant process, but there are small positives that you can see as you go through counseling together. Hold onto that commitment. I wish you and your hub the very best!