Hi Mc..........

I am glad that he doesn't do it during session................yick shivers..........but he also sits in a suggestive way! ohhhhhhhh kay. If you are nervous maybe take someone to see him with you when you discuss it. Or quit going altogether and find another T. Seriously........this is not good. Especially when you say he does this when therapy seems to "settle into something I can count on, something supportive". Therapists are supposed to be really good at body language so it is highly unlikely that he doesn't know what he is doing. If you really want to continue to work with him, you will have to address this. If not, find someone else. Seriously. Better safe than sorry. Good luck.