Dex,

These are all great ideas and they fit me pretty well. The debt and anxiety, wanting a comfortable future, fear of change, that's all happening in me now. Being judged and a people pleaser stem from always being told by my Mother that I wasn't good enough. I've always been like that, and probably always will.

This is some good stuf Dex, thanks!

"You might as well learn to like yourself; you have an awful lot of time to spend with you."