My boyfriend is a sex addict...but maybe it should be called more of a porn addiction. He was spending a LOT of money on porn sites and having really explicit email and chat conversations with past partners. I caught him at it twice. The first time was about 10 months ago, and I've just been in a tailspin since then. He's now a member of a support group.

I'm broken. Crushed. Humiliated. And terrified he'll do it again. I'm stuck in a place where I am afraid that he's not telling me everything because he knows I'll leave. He swears that all of his activity was online, that he never had any physical interaction with anyone--that it was more about the fantasy than anything else. But I'm so terrified.

Are there any partners of sex addicts on here that have gone through this successfully? I need to know that there's hope, that I may just be able to get past the fear and lack of trust. He's trying--he had me install a web filter on his computer, and I have all of the passwords to his emails/Facebook, and he's going to meetings. But I'm so scared that it's all going to fall apart again.