As far as the "pain" that Mandy experienced, tell her to use some lubrication beforehand -- this will help alot.
Also, please don't feel that you are being unfaithful or hurting Jessica. She would WANT you to be happy and to move on with your life. She wouldn't expect you to remain single forever. She cared for you, and she would want the very best for you. Of course she will live on in your heart -- but the heart has LOTS of room for love -- so don't hold it back.
Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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