I personally cannot get past an affair. I know this, and I let my partner know this ahead of time. The day I found out my ex cheated, I walked out of his life THAT day and STAYED out. Cheaters are quitters. Why not talk about it BEFORE you cheat. That's what I would do. I'm not happy with this, this, and this. Talk about it, give time to change and if NOTHING gets done, then END it. Cheating Helps NOTHING!

Sorry got a little steamed up, I CAN'T STAND CHEATERS! In RElationships or otherwise!