his entire family feels that way to. Well i didnt tell them about the whole sex thing but he is constantly on that stupid thing. God I wish it would break on him. He cant even get up when his parents want him to do something.

Ive been putting up with this for four years and I love him very much but I dont know how much more I can stand. I want to get married, have kids, move in with each other, etc. We use to talk about that kind of stuff and he seemed interested. But now when I ask him about moving in with one another he replies "I dont know, because then I wont be able to have my alone time" I dont know what he does in this "alone time" but it has something to do with that computer and he pretty much shuts himself off to every one. he doesnt enjoy having a job or at least he does for a while then pretty much does whatever he can to get himself fired....

I kind of knew what I was getting into when we started dating. Mostly because his mom warned me of this. Apparenlty it has been the downfall of every relationship he has had. But he seems in no way what so ever ready or even attempting to change anything. I have thought about leaving him a few times but when I think about it.. I really dont want to leave him. I want to have a future and all that with him so I keep telling myself to wait it out. But when does the waiting end?

and with the whole sex thing I have even tried to look like a character on one of his games. Ive gotten costumes made an he just goes "thats nice" and keep doing whatever he was doing at the time. I dont think its like he is addicted to the girls on the game because most of the games he plays dont have naked or even half naked women in it. some do granted. but only a very few. I want to not feel like im second best if even that to a computer.